Tuesday 18 March 2008

Infidelity

Just to put this into perspective, i'm 27, in a happy relationship for the last eleven years with two children , a dog and just acquired an estate car to match! So why would I want to betray my partner and commit an act of infidelity??

Well after meeting up with some friends who I havn't seen for ages it seems like everyone in a relationship isn't happy and are on the lookout for something bigger and better. However, I think the reality of it is, cheating on your partner is not the answer. Doesn't the grass on the other side always look greener?

The fact is, the one left at home being cheated on may never trust anyone again or it may take a very long time. It's the same as if someone in your family betrayed you by stealing something precious to you, you probably wouldn't ever trust them in your house again!


Acts of infidelity can course major upset to a family especially if children are involved. I agree that people shouldn't stay together just for the sake of the children as the children can always pick up on bad feeling but maybe the unhappy situation should be discussed before an act of betrayal is commited and it all gets too messy!!

For more info about infidelity take a look at this website:

http://www.infidelity.com/

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